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19事前不要让人期望过高（第1页）

19．事前不要让人期望过高

事前不要让人期望过高。名人常见的不幸，便是盛名之下其实难副。事实永远无法满足想象，因为理想容易树立，实现则很难。想象与希望结合，将孕育出更多与事实相距甚远的东西。无论结果多么出色，都无法满足人们的期望。当过高的期望落空，失望随之而来，人们更易心生幻灭，而非佩服。人们心中的希望能极大地扭曲真相，你要有防备这一点的能力，确保所得成果超过希望。刚开始，少许的成功足以唤起人们的好奇心，不必再去信誓旦旦承诺达到什么成功的目标。要让实际超过预计，让结果好过预想。但这个法则不适用于糟糕的事情，夸大坏的程度对之反而起到很大的帮助——对坏处的夸张失实之后会让人们欢呼，因为起初看上去具有毁灭性的事物，到最后竟然变得完全能够承受。

19．Arousenoexaggeratedexpectationsonentering

Arousenoexaggeratedexpectationsonentering。Itistheusualill-luckofallcelebritiesnottofulfilafterwardstheexpectationsbeforehandformedofthem。Therealcanneverequaltheimagined，foritiseasytoformidealsbutverydifficulttorealizethem。ImaginationwedsHopeandgivesbirthtomuchmorethanthingsareinthemselves。Howevergreattheexcellences，theyneversufficetofulfilexpectations，andasmenfindthemselvesdisappointedwiththeirexorbitantexpectationstheyaremorereadytobedisillusionizedthantoadmire。Hopeisagreatfalsifieroftruth;letskillguardagainstthisbyensuringthatfruitionexceedsdesire。Afewcreditableattemptsatthebeginningaresufficienttoarousecuriositywithoutpledgingonetothefinalobject。Itisbetterthatrealityshouldsurpassthedesignandisbetterthanwasthought。Thisruledoesnotapplytothewickedthings，forthesameexaggerationisagreataidtothem;theyaredefeatedamidgeneralapplause，andwhatseemedatfirstextremeruincomestobethoughtquitebearable。

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