25.善于领会弦外之音
善于领会弦外之音。善谈曾是人首先要掌握的技巧,但此术已不敷用。我们必须懂得领悟暗示,尤其是用于解除自己的疑惑。若不能很好地理解别人,那就很难被别人理解。有的人就像极善揣测他人之心的术士、洞察猎物之意的山猫。恰恰是那些对我们极为重要的真相,别人只会说一半。但是,只要用心,我们就能够理解全部含义。好事宁信其无,坏事宁信其有。
25.Knowhowtotakeahint
Knowhowtotakeahint。Itwasoncetheartofartstobeabletodiscourse;nowitisnolongersufficient。Wemustknowhowtotakeahint,especiallyindisabusingourselves。Hecannotmakehimselfunderstoodwhodoesnothimselfeasilyunderstand。Butontheotherhandtherearepretendeddivinersoftheheartandlynxesoftheintentions。Theverytruthswhichconcernusmostcanonlybehalfspoken,butwithattentionwecangraspthewholemeaning。Whenyouhearanythingfavourablekeepatightreinonyourcredulity;ifunfavourable,giveitthespur。
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