33.知道如何逃避
知道如何逃避。懂得如何拒绝是人生最重要的一课,其中,更重要的是懂得如何拒绝牵涉某些事与人。那些无关之事只是徒耗宝贵时光。忙于无关之事,还不如什么都不做。对一个谨慎细致的人来说,不仅不干涉他人,还要注意不被他人干涉。别完全属于他人,以免完全失去自己。对于朋友,你不能滥用其帮助,你所求之帮助不能超过他们愿意给你的。过犹不及,人际交往最忌失衡。明智地适可而止,可赢得别人的善意和尊重,用这种方法,别人才会始终对你客客气气。懂得逃避,你才能保住自己的才华,去自由选择最好的东西,而不违背追求高品位的不成文法则。
33.Knowhowtowithdraw
Knowhowtowithdraw。Ifitisagreatlessoninlifetoknowhowtodeny,itisastillgreatertoknowhowtodenyoneselfasregardsbothaffairsandpersons。Thereareextraneousoccupationswhicheatawayprecioustime。Tobeoccupiedinwhatdoesnotconcernyouisworsethandoingnothing。Itisnotenoughforacarefulmannottointerferewithothers,hemustseethattheydonotinterferewithhim。Oneisnotobligedtobelongsomuchtoallasnottobelongatalltooneself。Sowithfriends,theirhelpshouldnotbeabusedormoredemandedfromthemthantheythemselveswillgrant。Allexcessisafailing,butaboveallinpersonalintercourse。Awisemoderationinthisbestpreservesthegoodwillandesteemofall,forbythismeansthatpreciousboonofcourtesyisnotgraduallywornaway。Thusyoupreserveyourgeniusfreetoselecttheelect,andneversinagainsttheunwrittenlawsofgoodtaste。
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