290.如能赢得人们的喜爱和尊敬,则是莫大的幸运
如能赢得人们的喜爱和尊敬,则是莫大的幸运。通常来讲,一个人想要赢得尊敬,则不敢让人喜爱。相比恨,爱更多愁善感。喜爱与尊敬并不融洽。因此,你的目标应是既不令人过于畏惧,也不令人过于喜爱。喜爱带来信心,别人对你越是亲近,对你的敬意就越会减损。宁愿被敬爱,而不是被喜爱,因为喜爱更大众化。
290.Itisapieceofgoodfortunetocombinemen'sloveandrespect
Itisapieceofgoodfortunetocombinemen'sloveandrespect。Generallyonedarenotbelikedifonewouldberespected。Loveismoresensitivethanhate。Loveandhonourdonotgowelltogether。Sothatoneshouldaimneithertobemuchfearednormuchloved。Loveintroducesconfidence,andthefurtherthisadvances,themorerespectrecedes。Prefertobelovedwithrespectratherthanwithpassion,forthatisalovesuitableformany。
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