40.获得人们的好感
获得人们的好感。获得人们普遍的赞美的确了不起,得到大众的爱戴则更了不起。这既靠天资,也靠后天的努力——前者是基础,后者建立在前者之上。虽然天资被认为是必需的,但是光靠它是不够的。你应该赢得美名,之后要赢得好感就比较容易。要让人们产生好感,你须有善行——既说善话,又更要做善事。如欲被爱,则须先爱人。亲切周到是大人物精明的法宝。先立功德而后立言,先建功而后立传——赢得立言人的好感将使你英名永传。
40.Gainthegoodwillofpeople
Gainthegoodwillofpeople。Itismuchtogainuniversaladmiration;more,universallove。Somethingdependsonnaturaldisposition,moreonpractice:thefirstfounds,thesecondthenbuildsonthatfoundation。Brilliantpartsarenotsufficient,thoughtheyarepresupposed;wingoodopinionanditiseasytowingoodwill。Kindlyactsarerequiredtoproducekindlyfeelings,doinggoodwithbothhands,goodwordsandbetterdeeds,lovingsoastobeloved。Courtesyisthepoliticwitcheryofgreatpersonages。Firstlayhandondeedsandthenonpens;wordsfollowswords;goodwilltobewonamongwritersiseternal。
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