41.切勿言过其实
切勿言过其实。细心谨慎的一个重要目的,就是说话不过分使用“最”字,以免违背事实,或是让人对你的判断力产生怀疑。言过其实糟蹋你的判断力,显得你学识浅薄,品位低劣。赞美之辞引来人们的好奇心,好奇心又滋生欲望。待之后人们发现你是在夸大其词时,期望落空,就会有种被欺骗的感觉,于是滋生报复之心,将赞美者和被赞美者一起贬低下去。因此,谨小慎微之人在评价事物时总是很谨慎,宁可言之不足,也不夸大其词。非凡的事物是很少见的,因此,你要节制你的评价。夸大其词近乎说谎,会危及自身声誉,让人对你的品味产生怀疑;更糟糕的是,让人怀疑你的见识。
41.Neverexaggerate
Neverexaggerate。Itisanimportantobjectofattentionnottotalkinsuperlatives,soasneithertooffendagainsttruthnortogiveameanideaofone'sunderstanding。Exaggerationisaprodigalityofthejudgmentwhichshowsthenarrownessofone'sknowledgeorone'staste。Praisearouseslivelycuriosity,begetsdesire,andifafterwardsthevaluedoesnotcorrespondtotheprice,asgenerallyhappens,expectationrevoltsagainstthedeception,andrevengesitselfbyunder-estimatingthethingrecommendedandthepersonrecommending。Aprudentmangoesmorecautiouslytowork,andpreferstoerrbyunderstatementthanbyoverstatement。Extraordinarythingsarerare,thereforemoderateyourvaluation。Exaggerationisabranchoflying,andyoulosebyitthecreditofgoodtaste,whichismuch,andofgoodsense,whichismore。
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